I Had Crushing Anxiety One Trip Changed Everything

I watched as the woman arranged and rearranged her colorful blouses. She introduced herself with a big smile, as her green and yellow house dress swished around her knees. I asked in Spanish whether she spoke English. She shook her head. My Spanish was nominal at best, having learned mostly from reading advertisements on the New York City subway. I caught only that her name was Carmen. The night before, when the Airbnb host showed me around the apartment and pointed to a laundry rack in the back of the bedroom closet, I laughed....

January 2, 2023 · 7 min · 1479 words · Helen Johnson

I Have Autism Tiktok Trivializes My Condition

Because of my autism, I often have emotions but just don’t really understand what they are. I can’t label them, I just feel them. But when I am forced to sit down and write a song, I get this sense of clarity, which I think is really lucky. Music in itself is very emotional. I was partially deaf until the age of four, when I had an operation to clear a blockage in my ear....

January 2, 2023 · 10 min · 2065 words · Dorothy Vassar

I Lost My Love For The Game Van Aanholt Takes Aim At Sunderland Boss Moyes

City Football Group moves into South America Netherlands international Van Aanholt left Sunderland in January, joining former manager Sam Allardyce at fellow relegation candidates Crystal Palace. Palace sit four points clear of the drop zone with nine games remaining in their Premier League campaign, while Sunderland are planted to the foot of the table, and Van Aanholt has no regrets about leaving the club. “I did not enjoy David Moyes’ training sessions,” Van Aanholt, who is currently out with an ankle injury, said....

January 2, 2023 · 1 min · 196 words · Veronica Urias

I M A Plus Size Fashion Influencer

My attraction to fashion as a little girl grew into an intense teenage love. But, as I got a little older and reality tightened itself around me, I learned a hard truth—my love was not being requited. I’m a plus-size influencer and loving fashion isn’t easy when you’re fat. This love has required fight, dissertations on why I am worthy, defending my right to exist despite my BMI and so much more....

January 2, 2023 · 5 min · 1035 words · Jeanne Sayre

I M A Police Officer. I Adopted My Daughter After Helping Her On Duty

Then, on the night of March 24, 2018 I was on night patrol when I met Kaila for the first time. It was the same situation; here was this little two-year-old girl that had suffered abuse and needed to be loved. But when I met her, she was energetic and a survivor, you wouldn’t have known from looking at her what she had been through. I ended up transporting Kaila that night from where she was living to the Kingman police department while we waited for the Department of Child Safety (DCS) to respond....

January 2, 2023 · 7 min · 1416 words · Winifred Oakley

I M A Secret Engagement Ring Buyer For Clueless Guys

I jumped on an underground train with $50,000 worth of diamonds (which had been swiftly insured by the owner) in a supermarket carrier bag and met the “prospective proposer” inside a well-known bank’s staff cafeteria. The security guard laughed when my cargo went through the security scanner. Sitting in the cafeteria, we chatted through the pros and cons of transforming and re-making a ring his grandmother had given him. versus creating a new ring....

January 2, 2023 · 7 min · 1427 words · George Jackson

I M A Therapist Here Are 6 Ways You Can Handle Election Anxiety

We look to our leaders for guidance, so our anxiety can increase because we are facing uncertainty in what has already been a very uncertain year with COVID-19. Here are six tips I suggest people try if they are experiencing stress or anxiety around the U.S. presidential election. Don’t catastrophize I work in a solution-focused way with my clients, which means we don’t go over problems from the past. I focus on brain function and how we can go into “fight or flight” mode when anxious....

January 2, 2023 · 5 min · 1015 words · William Bowman

I M Fat Splaining Bill Maher Rants On Reality Of Obesity Covid Deaths

Maher, the host of HBO’s political talk show Real Time With Bill Maher, has been a consistent critic of the media’s reporting on obesity as the COVID-19 pandemic rampaged through the U.S. In a Sunday appearance on a conservative platform, Maher said he was “not fat-shaming” but “fat-splaining” about the country’s obesity problem. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has said that “obesity puts people at risk for many other serious chronic diseases and increases the risk of severe illness from COVID-19....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 581 words · Sally Spires

I M In My 60S Aging Feels Taboo Where I Live

On a typical day, I wake up, and before I brush my teeth or wash my face, I immediately do my “mirror, mirror on the wall” routine, which involves plucking out yet another discovered gray hair—or two, or three. But, rather than pulling out my whole head of hair, or cutting it into a mohawk, I get a grip. Living in Los Angeles, a place known as the “City of Angels” and synonymous with do-overs, I’m constantly concerned about aging as gracefully and as slowly as I can....

January 2, 2023 · 5 min · 890 words · Jenny Gay

I M Not Sure He Can Score Nicer Goals Klopp Waxes Lyrical Over Can Stunner

The Germany international flung himself at Lucas Leiva’s clipped pass into the penalty area on the stroke of half-time and connected with a perfectly executed bicycle kick that flew into the top-left corner. Can sends Reds fans into overdrive Adam Lallana, who returned from a five-week absence as an early substitute for the injured Philippe Coutinho, had hit the crossbar with the game goalless, while the woodwork came to the Reds’ rescue in second-half injury time to keep out Sebastian Prodl’s stinging half-volley....

January 2, 2023 · 2 min · 387 words · Thelma Jamison

I M Raising A Non Binary Child

But the next morning, I approached my eldest, London, and told them what their dad had told me. The first thing I said was, “How come you didn’t come and tell me yourself? You know you can tell me absolutely anything.” To which they explained that I had been busy with their baby brother. “None of that ever matters,” I told them. “I always have all the time in the world for you....

January 2, 2023 · 6 min · 1162 words · Jacqueline Schreckengost

I M So Confused Waffle House Employee Explains Marking System In Viral Video

Posting to TikTok last week, Suwupcanz (@hotsoupandcracker) shared that the restaurant chain uses a unique code to communicate orders. Already, the post has racked up more than 380,000 views and over 22,000 likes. What makes the code so unique? Well, rather than relying on written communication to complete orders, line cooks are handed plates with various condiments that signify not only different food items—such as eggs, ham, etc.—but also how those food items are prepared....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 457 words · James Weimer

I M Trying To Do More Kimmich Not Satisfied With Bayern Bench Duty

‘Mourinho more attacking at United’ Kimmich enjoyed a breakthrough campaign at Bayern last season, deployed across midfield and defence by then-boss Pep Guardiola, before winning a place in Germany’s Euro 2016 squad and ending the tournament as the world champions’ starting right-back. The 22-year-old continued his rich vein of form into the start of this term and had eight goals for club and country by mid-October. However, Kimmich has taken a back seat over recent weeks and has not started a match since the 1-1 draw at Hertha Berlin on February 18....

January 2, 2023 · 2 min · 294 words · Min Stinson

I Never Lacked Respect For The Fans Neymar Rejects Figo Comparisons Over World Record Psg Switch

Neymar top UCL scorer - 12/1 The €222 million deal to take the Brazil superstar to the Parc des Princes was completed on Thursday after PSG met his staggering release clause. He was unveiled to the media at the Parc des Princes on Friday and was asked about similarities between his transfer and that of Figo, who infamously traded Barca for arch-enemy Real Madrid in a then world-record move in 2000....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 429 words · Cathy Montes

I Never Met With Any Mafia Bosses Juventus President Agnelli Responds To Figc

Several prominent figures at Juve have already been called to testify at a parliamentary Anti-Mafia Commission amid claims of a connection between club officials, fanatical ‘ultra’ supporter groups and suspected organised crime bosses regarding the distribution of tickets. ‘Sampdoria tougher than Barca’ On Saturday, Agnelli attended a news conference to staunchly defend his reputation and that of the Serie A champions. “Half an hour ago I was notified that I have been deferred to the [FIGC] Disciplinary Commission, along with Francesco Calvo, who at the time was our director, [security manager] Alessandro D’Angelo and [ticketing manager] Stefano Merulla,” he said....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 585 words · Dora Alexander

I Run A Business Teen Allegedly Fired For Calling Out After Friends Died

The video appeared on Reddit in the subreddit “Public Freakout” in a post that has been voted on over 40,000 times. It appears, though, that the original video was posted by TikToker @mrdullstar last month. “People are really horrible, this [alleged] sonic [manager] doesn’t care about anyone’s situation,” read the caption of the video now viewed over 300,000 times on TikTok. “All you have to do is watch the video and see how horrible this person is....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 615 words · Timmy Lewis

I Ve Been Partying Since Saturday Jozy Altidore Gives Epic Speech At Toronto Fc S Mls Cup Rally

After thousands of fans packed streets in the city’s downtown core to watch the Toronto FC’s victory parade Monday, a jubilant Altidore took to the stage to address the crowd at Nathan Phillips Square. His impromptu speech at the end of the rally targeted the Montreal Impact, TFC’s main rival, and he later professed his love for Canada’s biggest metropolis. “Before we go guys, let’s spare a moment for our rivals,” Altidore said....

January 2, 2023 · 2 min · 301 words · Leonard Mullen

I Want To Make Changes

TAKAYAMA: What made you go after Prime Minister Mori? KATO: His cabinet is not supported by the people. About 80 percent of them say they don’t like [his government]. Past governments, even those that have accomplished something, have had to go due to their declining support rates. Mori’s [poll numbers] are going way down. To make matters worse, he has hardly accomplished anything. The real problem isn’t Mori, but the state of the Liberal Democratic Party....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 633 words · Mike Bogar

I Was Dumbfounded Man Bashed For Teasing Wife In Front Of Wedding Guests

Published to Reddit’s r/AmITheA**hole forum, a woman under the anonymous username u/Face-Abstract7679 shared her story to get the opinions of the “AITA” community. The popular post has over 7,000 upvotes and 1,200 comments. The original poster (OP) began her post by saying that she has always struggled with self-esteem. She considers herself an introvert, anxious and socially awkward. She got into makeup during her twenties and now does it for a source of income and to help her boost her confidence and self-esteem in her thirties....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 637 words · Beth Gatlin

I Will Continue To Fight

NEWSWEEK: There are rumors that you had serious conversations with Colin Powell about an independent candidacy. BRADLEY: Totally untrue. Why not just run with Powell? We’ve got to get beyond the idea that everything in our politics today has to focus on candidacy. My interest is trying to focus people away from candidate talk to the underlying problems in the democratic process. Talk about particular candidacies or tactics is just not where I am....

January 2, 2023 · 4 min · 824 words · Martha Schmidt